Me Fag..Me nose..and me Blurryyy...

I am such a blurry freak…

I was on the first flight to Alor Setar this morning for a routine inspection – don’t ask how hectic it has been, needless to say pasal waking-up at 5 etc..etc..

Had my breakfast at the McD, at least that helped me out to get myself into mood. Kena makan cepat sebab I just got about 20 minutes from departing time.. and before I could get any more intense than that, a family of foreigners who were sitting next to my table, addressed me, wondering if I was kind of running away from home. I giggled, and at that particular time baru I noticed how selebet I was.

Arrived in AS at about 9, and straight away to work. At about 12, my boss dah start nak jalan2 around AS. Giler apa.. my flight home is going to be at 3!

But she insisted..(My Goodness..this fella memang ..ergh… tatau la… )

So..dengan tak ikhlasnye..I did follow her.

The condition of the car..? Pleaseee…..!! That vehicle was rather OK.. but my boss’s stuff made that vehicle looks so similar to a junk truck! And she expected me to squeeze in between those what-ever-it-is junks! She simply ordered the fella who’s driving to Bukit Kayu Hitam, for what she claimed as a lil’ shopping..

Letih sangat....my legs and entire body tu tayah cerita la. I felt like crawling sebab letih.. I just remain quiet so that she would notice betapa tak ikhlasnye I was then..heheheh… And before they could get me even more miserable.. I asked ‘em to drop me off at the airport..

And I felt like crying.. sebab being so tensed and fagged.. and all alone..

My flight home wasn’t helping neither comforting. It went shaking and bumping against the clouds - all the way to KL. I can’t breathe well, plus the pressure disturbed and clogged my ears. My head felt like burning. Tetiba jer, the guy next to my seat went acting kelam kabut. Kena apa la mamat ni…

“Aaa..bagi air..air.. ngan kain..aaa..tisu..!” he suddenly grasped a steward’s hand.. and all eyes went to him. And then to me.. Aaa?? Me?

Me..? Still - blurr and bedazzled. Apa orang tengok-tengok kat aku ni.. Isk.. what have i DONE?? Isk..dah la pening nii...

Then the steward came, and handed me a wet tissue.. Err.. Apa diorang ni….?? Aku ni mimpi ke..? I was in total confusion. Hoping that someone would help me.. please lahhhh explain…. *frown

“You okey ke..? Hidung you berdarahh…” mamat serban sebelah at last cakap.

Aaa..? Idung bedarah? Mana? Tak rase pape pon?
Took the tissue, and tried to wipe my nose.. Eh..ha’ah laa.. darah..
Err..malu giler orang semua tengok I wiped my nose.. (ehehehehhe…*blush)

“You sakit apa2 ke? A? Okey ke..? Nak air ke..?” huh..kelam kabut giler… He even asked the steward to get more wet tissues..

I was too shock to answer him, neither to nod or geleng kepala.. Ushh.. selamba je aku nih.. I bet my face memang blur tahap cipan! I just look at him… and just that..And that particular act, made me rasa quilty (yang amat sangat!) sebab tak cakap thanks ke apa ke.. (teruk betul lah aku nih..) And I made no movement until the plane touched-down..

Hish..kena cakap thanks ni.. beriya-iya niat.
But when I got the chance to thank him, I ended smiling – with my fingers still holding on to my nose. And that was all...He merged into the line and disappeared.

Err.. takpe ke tak cakap tima kasih aa…?
Senyum tu kira tima kasih la kan…? Kan? Kan?

GUILTY!
Err..halal lah.. Tenkiu ye encik..
Takpelah.. kurang-kurang pun dia ingat I bisu jer…

Letihh.....!

Intann : Moral 1 – Guilty akan hilangkan rasa letih.
Moral 2 – Don’t ever ..ever..ever..forget to thank people who helped
you..

Subject: FW: For a good relationship

Nida sent me this well-said advice e-mail..

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is
broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to
suspicion,suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may
result in separation.

A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She
answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence.
She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut
off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got
the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is."

Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the
telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".

NO POINTING FINGERS

A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful
marriage. Could you please share with me our secret?" The father-in-law
answered in a smile, "Never criticise your wife for her shortcomings or
when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her
shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you."

We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of
losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around
to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war.
We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the
other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.

If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS?

A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and
requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable
one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking,
polite,humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing.
Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I
don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for
conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened
carefully and
replied, "I understand you need television."

There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind
wife and a deaf husband,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the
husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many
couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual
perfect relationship.
Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and
discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

NO OVERPOWERING

Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or
demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all
and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this
is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that
"It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."

It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the
spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.

It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

RIGHT SPEECH

There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will
either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of
wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget
mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it
would hurt the other party.

A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A
worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,
"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the
way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married
me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She
answered,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be
the millionaire and not you."

Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad
relationship.


BE PATIENT

This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his
home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was
happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to
his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as
punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital.


Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he
finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy
woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "
Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers
going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide.



Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish
to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u
love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't.
Too often we fail to recognise the difference between the person and the
performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.

People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we
take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

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Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget.
Love one and all. If you judge people, you have no time to love them.


Intann : Te quieiro, mi amor... *pour mon cher only...grinn..heheheh..